Saturday, August 31, 2013

Risk Factors: Sibling Emotional Abuse

There is yet to be sufficient research into how and why sibling abuse occurs. But experts have found a number of risk factors that can make sibling emotional abuse more likely. I have used this website and this one to restate experts' findings. I have also made some of my own observations, which I have also included below. 

  • Parents are uninvolved 
  • Parents are in denial that there's a problem
  • Parents don't understand that it's a big deal 
  • Parents think they must always hold children equally accountable
  • Parents are permissive
  • Parents accept sibling rivalry as normal, rather than working to minimize fights
  • Parents have not taught conflict management from early on
  • Parents don't intervene
  • The abuser has a personality that craves power
  • The abuser has low self-esteem
  • The abuser exhibits inflexibility, or a low tolerance for frustration
  • Jealousy after the baby arrives initiates abusive behavior in the older sibling, which later become habits
  • The abuser lacks empathy
  • Abuse has been modeled for children

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